{"id":46,"date":"2010-04-25T09:39:00","date_gmt":"2010-04-25T09:39:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/67.249.26.136\/wordpress\/?p=46"},"modified":"2010-04-25T09:39:00","modified_gmt":"2010-04-25T09:39:00","slug":"1272202740000","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/romeyn.me\/?p=46","title":{"rendered":"Smart people who disagree with me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>On the TV show &quot;The West Wing&quot; president Bartlett&#8211;a Democrat&#8211;at one point decided he wanted a Republican as one of his key advisors.&nbsp; When quizzed about WHY he would want that, the deputy chief of staff (if I recall correctly) replied, &quot;the president likes smart people who disagree with him.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>I post here a series of tweets from John C Welch (@bynkii, if you care, and he&#8217;s Googlable if you want anything else) that deal loosely with the subject:<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8211;<br \/>\n[bynkii] <span class=\"status-body\"><span class=\"status-content\"><span class=\"entry-content\">pondered unfollowing vs. banning  today. conclusion: Unfollowing is how a grownup deals w\/ people they  disagree with\/don&#8217;t like on twitter&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/span><\/span><span class=\"status-body\"><span class=\"status-content\"><span class=\"entry-content\">&#8230;Don&#8217;t want to deal with  someone&#8217;s twitspew? unfollow. you can still interact, but at a slower  pace.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/span><\/span><span class=\"status-body\"><span class=\"status-content\"><span class=\"entry-content\">Banning is ultimately a petulant  juvenile act of hiding that doesn&#8217;t work anyway. But some folks can  only handle &#8216;A&#8217; rides.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/span><\/span><span class=\"status-body\"><span class=\"status-content\"><span class=\"entry-content\">I learn a lot from people who  vehemently disagree with me. I learn a lot from people who agree with me  as well.<\/span> <\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/span><span class=\"status-body\"><span class=\"status-content\"><span class=\"entry-content\">In both cases, usually things  I&#8217;d have never thought of myself, because they have different viewpoints  and worldviews.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/span><\/span><span class=\"status-body\"><span class=\"status-content\"><span class=\"entry-content\">I learn nothing by hiding from  people.     Better to be pissed off than miss out on learning.<br \/>\n&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve known many people in my Life who behave this way.&nbsp; If they disagree with something, they write it off completely.&nbsp; I suppose in the short term that&#8217;s fine, but to never revisit &quot;it&quot; again just because you didn&#8217;t care for it once is short-sighted.&nbsp; As humans, we are constantly growing and maturing.&nbsp; Our experiences, our attitudes, and our bodies are always changing.&nbsp; To assume permanence of anything in this existence is folly at best.<\/p>\n<p>I see this most in my peers, many\/most of whom see no value whatsoever in gathering with counterparts from other institutions to see how things are done at their places of employment.&nbsp; When asked, they&#8217;ll tell me they&#8217;re bored or that there&#8217;s nothing to learn.&nbsp; While I respect their opinion, I scoff inwardly.&nbsp; That attitude suggests that WE somehow &quot;have it all figured out&quot; and that our systems and methodologies are perfect and that we have nothing to learn.&nbsp; That smacks of arrogance and arrogance usually leads to a Fall of some kind.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>I want no part of that.&nbsp; I enthusiastically seek out these forums.&nbsp; I see them as win\/win.&nbsp; I&#8217;ll either learn something I didn&#8217;t know and can take that information back to my own organization an attempt to improve it, or I&#8217;ll get validation that our ways are the Right Ways (for us) and can share that wisdom with others who may benefit from it.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>In my experience, a whole lot of BOTH actually goes on.&nbsp; And either way, I&#8217;m better for it.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><span class=\"status-body\"><span class=\"status-content\"><span class=\"entry-content\"><\/span><\/span><\/span><span class=\"status-body\"><span class=\"status-content\"><strong><\/strong> <span class=\"actions\"><\/span><span class=\"entry-content\"><\/span>           <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On the TV show &quot;The West Wing&quot; president Bartlett&#8211;a Democrat&#8211;at one point decided he wanted a Republican as one of his key advisors.&nbsp; When quizzed about WHY he would want that, the deputy chief of staff (if I recall correctly) replied, &quot;the president likes smart people who disagree with him.&quot; I post here a series [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[4],"class_list":["post-46","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-general"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/romeyn.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/romeyn.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/romeyn.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/romeyn.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/romeyn.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=46"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/romeyn.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/romeyn.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=46"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/romeyn.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=46"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/romeyn.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=46"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}